Friday, March 28, 2014

I can wear girls' swimsuit in public pool?




Adam Peter


I'm 20 years old china man. And i just bought a girls' swimsuit call is Navy Fastskin II breakrecorder in my home. Sometimes i wore it at my home only. It's really comfort suit and fit my size! You think I can wear a girls' swimsuit in public pool?
Yes im kinda weird person. But I not gay. I'm straight.

What your opinion.



Answer
Yes, you can !
If the swimsuit you chooses is not too "girly like" and good fitting.
A good men swimsuit for exemple is:
http://store.speedo.com/p/swimsuits/womens-hydrasuit-swimsuit/800710

I wear that (and other swimsuits like that) and never had any problems.
I think swimsuits like that fits men as well as women.

What's the big deal about little girls wearing bikini swimsuits?

Q. It's so much easier to use the restroom, and if applicable, change the Little Swimmer.
I didn't realize there was a difference between a 2 piece and a bikini. Never wore either...I've always been fat unlike my thin daughter.


Answer
My family standards do not allow for bikini (or any swimsuit that shows the tummy) swimsuits. Explaining why a 5 year old can't wear one and then letting a baby wear one would be a double-standard. However, for when they are toddlers or younger we just use a diaper-swimmer suit (not the Little Swimmers, we buy the suits.) And if we're at a public pool, we use a little shirt. If outside at our house, we let the babies go nude, but if it's very sunny then they wear a UV protecting sun-shirt and shorts.

Someone in my family, his sister had a little girl (4) who was raped senseless (not joking, this is not in the least funny) and is disabled now from the damage the pervert did to her body and brain. I have 3 sisters who were molested as children. While the standards for my family actually come from my religion and beliefs, I'm very aware that a pedophile will hang out at a swimming pool and watch the little kids (because I know a couple at this point.) And there's nothing against the law saying they can't stare and fantasize (or even snap a few pictures with their cell now and take it home for more 'fun'.)

To me, I don't want to even think of someone looking at her like that, and while I don't want to raise her hiding everything because of a fear someone might look at her, I don't see a point in a bikini which is often sexualized in magazines and looks like underwear (for a reason.) A two piece suit that covers the belly doesn't bother me. But bikinis really are designed to look like a bra and panties and is more sensual than in public clothes need to be.




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